Forget the World, remember yourself.

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Forget the World, remember yourself.

You decided to do something, but the first thing that comes to your mind is what if I fail and what would be its consequences and I would like to put this into light that the consequences as we talk of it is mainly what would others thing what will others do, what my boss or my parents or my teacher say about me, isn’t it? Many of us may or may not have this fear but I pity those in a positive manner those whose actions are controlled and invented with an urge to please others or as a secondary modified option of what your original idea was. See the possibility of your task can be that it may be successful or it may not be and these two matter the most but before we come to this we might consider whether is it right whatever we are doing, I mean whatever you do well if you are clear with the pros and cons of your deed you may decide to do it or not and if you do, you have done something good and if you don’t then either you got to analyze that it was against the values that you have, you know against your conscience or you don’t know whether its right or wrong, then you got to just do it, well we grow this way experimenting to know and transcend the boundaries but be sure you will have to face consequences now it is randomly reliant on respective conditions that whether they would be severe or not but you need to be tolerant because you showed that you are curious and true to yourself when you did the act and now don’t lose hope and face the results which may vary from imprisonment, being grounded for a week, negative comments or anything worse. Now you did it ask yourself whether it was wrong or right? If you don’t get it you may ask an elder or try harder and harder to decide the nature of this practice. But what I feel that consider this all only if whatever you are doing involves only you and even its results but if someone else could have to bear possible effects then you might need to ask them before taking any action. Now if you decided to do something and you don’t know but feel it a bit right and all that bothers you is that how would you parents feel, what your friends will say, what rumor would prevail the environment then remind yourself that they don’t live for you and you don’t live for them, it’s you who would decide their fate whether to follow others or make your own route, your own destination, your own reasons to be happy. Try living a day like nobody was watching, I mean not playing pranks but anything you wanted to do that peers limited something that was not right according to others but to you anything that was worthless to others but valuable to you. Everyone have priorities and everyone have opinions and to pass time people discuss either themselves or anything that someone else said, they will speak when you do good or when you do wrong or even when you did not do anything at all so if you are indifferent to them, it would be a better choice to carry on. Don’t ignore them like anything but free yourself, don’t limit your wishes and goals according to their standards or whether it is possible or not because many people just follow and they do it very inconsistently, their choices vary according to what pleases them irrespective of how positive or negative something was, so even if you try and become an apple of their eye, sooner or later they will lose interest in you and forget you like you were never there.    “Making everyone happy is impossible but pissing everyone off is funny and as easy as hell”

If all you want is attention you might do anything that gratifies them or anything that is considered very inhuman or wrong or foolish that maybe what you want to do or just to accomplish your motive but if you hardly give an eye to what they talk about or what is the topic or conversations these days, it is advisable to walk at your path as you don’t mess with people, right?